Do you have a diaper fetish and find yourself part of the bdsm world? It seems the two don’t necessarily go hand in hand for many abdl’s but you can see a correlation for yourself. That being said you don’t find that a bad thing. The bdsm world is very exotic and varied in its pursuits and you do enjoy the freedom that gives you on a personal level. Do you find that it is a path of discovery? By that I mean you are not 100% sure where it will lead or exactly what it is that you are looking for. Part of you is looking to be made to feel safe at times and nurtured while at other times you just delighted in the naughty feeling that wearing diapers creates. On an emotional level do you suppose that you are looking for a deep loving bond, but you can not say that is to the exclusion of your sexual urges. Your personally is looking to explore yourself a sexual nature and to have someone join you on this path of exploration into the unknown. Many abdl’s have a clear picture of what they want, you are not one of them and you are open to including your partner’s sexual and emotional needs in your play, to you this is only natural and common sense. If you or anyone else plan to get involved with a abdl, my suggestions would be: Be direct with them and question them in a straightforward manner. Be willing to ask the questions instead of letting them bring the topics up, we are a shy bunch lol. *Require them to be completely honest from the start ab/dl’s tend to feel ashamed of some aspects involving their fetish and will beat around the bush with their replies and give non-committal answers like ‘a bit’ or ‘I suppose I like it’. Don’t stand for this! Get them to answer with a outright Yes or No answer. *Abdl’s can be an emotional lot but don’t let that hold you back from being assertive and dominant when it is required. They wear their hearts on their sleeves at times and will look for hugs and try to hide from the truth, when a nice firm maternal push in the right direction would suffice. […]