Don’t Mess with the Ma’am     Ok, I admit it; I like it when little ones (and older ones for that matter) address me with the title Ma’am.  I know some ladies and AB Mommies don’t like it, that it makes them feel like an old lady and they should have names like Agnes or Gertrude or Ester, but I see it as the ultimate show of respect.  Just think for a moment, have you ever tried to question someone when you addressed them as Ma’am?  It just doesn’t work, does it?   You simply don’t question someone who has earned the title of Ma’am.     There is a strength that is implied as well when I am addressed as Ma’am; that I am, without question, the Matriarch and that I have the last word on all matters.  And I am usually looking for short responses to my inquiries –     “Don’t you think you should be getting to that list of chores I made for you?” “Yes Ma’am, right away Ma’am.”     “Did I say that eating your vegetables was optional?” “No Ma’am.”     “Didn’t I just say it was bedtime and to turn off the game?” “Yes Ma’am.” “Did I ask to hear you whine and complain about not wanting to go to bed?” “No Ma’am.” “Are you looking for a spanking?” “No Ma’am.” “Then off you go.” “Yes Ma’am.”     See what I mean?  There is no wiggle room when you are dealing with a “Ma’am”.   Simply put – You don’t mess with the Ma’am.     Gina 1.888.430.2010